Dr Fourie’s General Parenting Advice

Say “NO”!

By: Dr Pieter Fourie

Dear parents, mothers, fathers, teachers and caretakers – Please say “NO”!

Toddlers
Say no when throwing a tantrum
When touching something dangerous
When wanting something in the shop
When refusing to go to bed
When taking things off a counter
When refusing to get out of the bath

Preschool
Say no to walking around while eating
Watching television all day long
Demanding food that’s not on the table
Demanding a toy or sweets in the shop
Refusing to tidy up their room
Playing in a dangerous area

Primary school
Say no to extra screen time
To sleep out with friends whose parents you do not know
Say no to late night playing outside
Say no to violent video games
High heel shoes and risky skirts
Say no to swearing and bad jokes

High school
Say no to tattoos and belly rings
To short-short jeans and risky tops
Say no to smoking and drugs
Say no to alcoholic drinks
Say no to age-restricted videos
Open parties and bars

College/University
Say no to too much pocket money
Weekends with friends you do not trust
Driving without a license
Drinking and driving
Say no to traveling alone late at night
Say no to bribes and cheating

Let your “NO” come from your mind – but motivated by your heart.